The home has a son, he is
two years old for long time, I think in kindergarten too early, so little is
social domestication, was so cruel, think about it. But, now every basically is
a child, most of the time can't find children play together, can only son playing
alone or play with grown-ups, obviously, this is not good for the development
of children. So, the family investigated after a long time, decided to bring
him to a weekly americans open development center, and his children his age
play. Son is very happy, because the place is very big, there are a lot of
children playing sports equipment, very suitable for his active temperament. We
first formal, a first class Chinese girl received us, about 25 years old, tall,
grow very sweet, young children a look like the sort of type. I pointed to the
girl said: "son, that aunt." Results the girl said, "don't. Call
me Monica. What's your name?" And then, out a large NFL
Jerseys American boy, probably
more than 20 years old, fat, HanHanDe, very lovely, see my son said, "my
name is Aipathy, and you?" In the face of the two men, the son what all
didn't call. And I want to, or because unfamiliar, or because he haven't met
use first names way of describing, usually see as two of the above age boys and
girls, he will call "uncle", "aunt", never called name. Later, old man needs to deal with things back to my hometown, we still have to
work. Can't, had to will close from home to the son of a small nursery, and
every day the kind of transport. Once again, my son in the morning, a girl open
the door, estimates that under the age of twenty, smiling, I twisted said to
the son, "baby, that aunt." The son call: "aunt." The girl
didn't respond, just all smiles will bring in the son. Afternoon I went to pick
up, the girl to give him wear after, I said son: "baby, with aunt
bye!!" Before the son said what, that girl suddenly say: "baby, with
teacher bye!!" Son loudly say: "teacher bye!!" I'm all ears.
Then I just know, nursery with children said, are "teacher" to refer
to the girls, such as: nana's teacher, teacher, YuanYuan lily teacher, and so
on. The comparison between, can't not a sigh with regret. On the one hand, you
could say that the cultural differences between China and the United States
really big: they let children and adults between use first names, we let the Wholesale MLB Jerseys children and adults with elders according to age between your respectful name
all not line, still have to match with the teachers and students based on
position, let people see is the China since ancient times the honour low order.
On the other hand, is more important, is between the thinking mode, and
therefore make consequences: our children age living in the shadow of the
authority under, call him by his first name means that both parties have equal
status, the teachers and students there is high and low proportion of the
points.
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